Sunday 13 July 2014

You and Me.. and the World

Finally you have found your soul mate and everything is perfect? Take another look; if your partner belongs to a different race, things can be ugly. Family and friends start treating you like alien along with your partner and all sorts of advice start pouring in as to how to leave your partner.

To save your relationship and your partner from all the humiliation, it is important to stick by your partner’s side and be his support. Sometimes family and friends can be extremely hurtful and that is why it is advisable to talk to them about your relationship before you fix a meeting. Sit them down and explain all the good qualities that your partner has and why they should like him too.

Take a stand when it comes to your relationship. Most of the times a relationship come to an end because two people are too weak to handle criticism. Who said that it would be easy to have an interracial relationship? But once you are in it, it is your responsibility to make it work. Be positive and do not overreact if someone stares at you.

Never listen anything against your partner if you want to have a successful relationship. Explain your family and friends that you are capable enough to chose your life partner and if they don’t like him, it is their problem and not yours. Make sure that you are really in love with that person because only then can you come to his defense.

According to a Canadian report, around 4% of all the relationships are interracial. No matter how people react when they see you holding hands or talking, remember that at the end of the day, you have to stay with that person and no one else. There are times when one becomes skeptical of their own choices, it is at that time when you need to remind yourself of all the good qualities that you saw in your partner and why you love him. Make sure that love never dies, all the best.

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