One of the most disturbing things about divorce is that children have to suffer a lot without any mistake on their part. They get to see their parents fighting one day after the other (even if they want to see or not) and that causes trauma among the children. Showcasing bad behavior in front of the children can be really damaging and that is why it is important for the parents to showcase good values in front of the children in order to help them shape their future.
Family is one unit and if the parents keep on quarreling children will only attract the negative attributes. Be a responsible parent if you want to see your child grow into a successful individual. I can’t even imagine children living in harmony when the parents are always ready to bring each other down.
Each parent has its own role and living without one can hamper the growth of the child but living with a dysfunctional family where there is no love can be even more damaging. It is the duty of the parents to give their children a secure future by being responsible. Even if you are not in a happy relationship with your spouse, make sure you do not let it show in front of the kids. If you two have decided to stay together for the sake of kids then make sure he is not suffering because of you and if he is, it is better to part ways and stop the trauma.
The points mentioned above will help the parents in deciding what they actually want to do after divorce. Make sure that you take the right decision so as to give the child a better future.
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